A Girl Documents The Day To Day Of Her Motherhood
In our society, many people when they see a mother who stays at home to take care of her children or who is a housewife, they immediately criticize her or dismiss her that it is very good at home, because nothing is done. On many occasions, these people who judge do so without knowing and in the face of ignorance of what it means to be a mother who stays at home to take care of her children and have the house well cared for.
There are mothers who are even criticized for why they complain about their lives if all they have to do is take care of their baby and be at home. What a luxury of life to have all the time in the world at home!
That is the most common thought, but of course, it is a distorted thought that is far from the reality of many stay-at-home mothers. Being a mother is exhausting.
The worst thing is when a mother stays at home all day and when the couple or any other person comes home, they ask her because of the disorder, what has she done all day, if the house is upside down. A Moscow woman, tired of so much unknowing gossip on the part of others, has decided to show the harshness of motherhood in her day-to-day life with her selfie stick. Her name is Yuliya Skorobogatova.
Every day is different
It is true that she does not have to leave at 6 in the morning to go to the office by subway to work, nor does she have to be in the car for an hour in traffic jams in the cities to be able to go to her work day.
No, your day is different and motherhood is not easier just by being at home. She complains about other things, because every life is different. She just wants others to realize that being a mother is also exhausting.
She wants an end to the judgments of people who think that by staying at home in charge of their children it does not do anything useful or what is worse, ‘that it does nothing’. She has been able to document her day to day so that everyone can discover what it means to be a mother… And so that those who already are, can feel recognized and accompanied in their motherhood.
Things do not do themselves
This mother does not always get up at the same time, since it is her daughter who sets her alarm clock, there are days when she can get up at nine in the morning (yes, quite a privilege), but there are other days than her alarm clock starts claiming him at 5 in the morning, when the stars are still in the sky! And of course, nighttime awakenings are common.
She is never alone, she does not have a moment of intimacy, nor to be able to go to do gymnastics quietly … That going for a walk with headphones on with the only company of nature, is a whole utopia. Even things as normal as taking a shower or brushing her teeth, she always does it in the company of her little girl, who curiously watches her every move.
Many envy her because she can sleep during the day, taking advantage of her little girl’s naps… What others don’t know is that her naps are short and often non-existent, because she has to take advantage of the quiet time to be able to do things at home that otherwise it is more complicated to do, such as washing dishes or ironing … Because you have no help other than your own hands.
When you go shopping, you have to go with your little one in the car, and you have to think about buying everything you need so that when you get home, you will not miss anything. While shopping, you are also very aware of everything that cannot be missing so that there is a healthy diet at home, and in addition to being food for quick recipes, there is not much time for sophisticated dishes.
There are many tasks that this mother has to do throughout the day, tasks that she does alone while she is in charge of her precious baby. Without help, she alone … And with a few hours that pass so quickly that when night comes, she is so tired that she does not realize how many hours of sleep she must enjoy to recharge her batteries. Being a mother is exhausting, regardless of who it may be!
