Talk To Your Children As If They Were Magical, Kind And Wise People

Talk to your children as if they were magical people, beings made of kindness, endowed with humility as well as respectful wisdom, because in this way, and by dint of listening and believing it and they will finally act that way. They will become special adults who will shape each of those seeds that you sowed in them.

Something that many moms and dads know is that it is not always easy to instill in our own children those values ​​that define us and that in essence, configure that dignified and respectful nobility with which to be happy and in turn give happiness. As we always point out in our space, few things are more important than serving as an example, however, there is one more aspect that we should never lose sight of in parenting.

We talk about the need to be architects, facilitators of that learning that starts from emotions and is capable of shaping minds and hearts. Maria Montessori already said it once “you have to sow good ideas in children even if they do not understand them, the years will be in charge of deciphering them and making them flourish in their hearts.”

Such art, such educational and wonderful architecture needs all of our energies, our time and intentionality. However , it is a daily endeavor that is worth investing our entire lives, our dreams and our hopes. We explain how to achieve it.

Your child is magical, make him see, feel and believe that he is special

To make a child believe that he is special is not to make him see that he is better than anyone else. It is allowing him to see the world with security, knowing that he is loved, knowing himself capable of fighting for his dreams, of having a voice in the world, of endowing his self-esteem with a strong and valuable internal structure every day.

Take note of what simple strategies and daily actions will allow us to achieve that inner growth, that of feeling valuable and special:

• Give value and importance to everything your child says, positively reinforce what they do well and avoid criticizing or sanctioning their mistakes. When he does something wrong, help him improve by transmitting your confidence.
• Value it in public.
• Boost his imagination, offer him learning opportunities where he enjoys, where he can connect with the environment, with what surrounds him and also with you.

Humility and kindness, two roots to grow in your children

Educating our children in humility will first enable them to learn to better handle frustration. Demonstrating from an early age the need to share, to not be more than anyone else, to take others into account, will gradually make that time between 2 and 6 years old and characterized by the classic childish egocentricity less intense. and more open to others.

Being kind is not just a matter of civility, it is a value with which to grow as people and which, in turn, is linked to humility. In this dimension, we must also serve as an example to them on a day-to-day basis, and kindness, let’s not forget, is also shown in the language, in the tone, in the way our children see us treat others.

To instill in our children kindness, do not hesitate to follow these tips:

• Teach them to say “thank you” to understand the effect that this word has in their day to day life.
• Teach them to share, to wait their turns, to respect times, that what is yours and mine can also be “ours”.
• Allow him to make contact from early times with other children. This interaction with your peers will help you to know how to share, to make contact with other ideas, tastes, preferences …

Your child is wise, convey your love of learning

A curious child is a receptive child. A child who feels free to interact, to ask questions, to approach us with their doubts, their interests and their comments is a little one who enjoys learning. We must enhance that value, that of curiosity.

It is clear that not all children learn at the same rate, that each one has his or her interests, and that each child has some skills and potential. However, all children are wise, they have an innate ability to interact with the world, to get excited, to see things from a perspective that we as adults have lost.

We must reinforce that gift, that of that nobility and that magic that allows them to enjoy things with exceptional intensity. A child who feels comfortable, who is supported by his parents, who feels loved and valued for all that he is and what he can do, will be a little one who enjoys learning and who will continue to increase his potential.

Feel free to remind your little treasure every day that he is magical, that he is wise, that he is humble and a very special person.